In recent years a growing number of couples who live apart. Employment or educational problems usually become their main reason to live long-distance marriage.
Of course undergo this kind of marriage is not easy and not a few couples who eventually surrendered. Consider the seven most common problems often arise in a marriage relationship long distance, as quoted from HowStuffWorks.
1. Lack of communication
Opportunity to meet is a major problem for couples who undergo long-distance relationship. As a result they 'revenge' by maximizing all alternative means of communication, ranging from telephone, SMS, chat and video call, so that finally did the communication through electronic means has become a habit.
Unfortunately, this kind of communication is not really satisfactory to both parties. Interactions with each other feels like restricted. Yet in every relationship, especially marriage, touching, feeling connected and the presence of a partner is important.
2. Have different life
Living in different cities or countries that will make you and your spouse have different life. For example, your spouse transferred out of town, of course he will adapt to life in their area. While you continue to live in big cities. Gradually, your habits and he would not be the same as of yore, and not infrequently it is a conflict.
3. Vulnerable infidelity
Long-distance marriage tended more natural temptation, especially, of infidelity. At first maybe you and your partner can hold him. But when the sense of loneliness are constantly coming up, and a woman or a man pulls up in an unexpected moment the affair was not the impossible. Distance, a sense of loneliness and generally, alcohol can trigger this problem.
4. Lack of trust
Not impossible, after reading your last three points into a panic and began to suspect the couple. Unfortunately it just does not improve the situation. Many long-distance marriage that eventually ended due to suspicion and jealousy. This usually occurs in couples who have not been ready for it.
5. The cost
For couples who undergo long-distance marriage, togetherness means the cost of a plane or train tickets and hotel expenses. Not to mention, phone bills, the cost of shipping packages, as well as the cost of the Internet to keep in touch any time. Marriage requires a long distance charges are very expensive.
In addition, you are feeling lonely will need a 'distraction'. For example, by shopping or hanging out with my friends, of course it makes you more bloated bill.
6. Different expectations
What do you and your partner think about long-distance marriage may not be the same when it comes to determining happiness and success of the relationship. Long-distance relationship can mean different things to different people. For you this relationship is a 'tragedy' while for him is 'long vacation'. If couples do not share expectations before the split, it could be this continues to be a conflict.
7. Problem child
Long-distance marriage also raises the issue of child affairs. If you already have children, husband and wife should be aware that the burden would be heavier because they have to take care of the child alone. Conversely if you do not have children, decide when to have children or children join their mother or father is a topic that most stressful.