A wedding that runs smoothly and successfully is often not separated from the presence of a wedding planner or wedding planner. Not infrequently, the wedding planner considered a friend, mediator, and unifying the prospective bride and her family.
Preparing for marriage is very important. Anyone would want the best marriage in her life. However, sometimes the busy bride to make them do not have enough time to take care of his own marriage.
The lack of knowledge of the wedding preparations and so make the services of a wedding planner becomes a necessity. Even today the task of the wedding planner is no longer simply be an extension of the bride alone. But to help facilitate and create a most memorable wedding for the bride and family. And surely invite admiration of the guests in attendance.
Lighten the Load Prospective Bride
Using the services of a wedding planner is not a necessity. But as time went on and development of the future, services are increasingly required as a wedding planner can ease the burden on the prospective bride.
There are some roles and tasks to be run by a wedding planner:
1. Planners, is to give suggestions and feedback about the concept of event, cost, venue, vendors such as decorations, photos and video, sound system, lighting system, special effects, multi-media, MCs, dancers and other performers that suit their needs and bride desires.
2. As a coordinator, which is coordinating all parties involved in the wedding party, from the prospective brides, family, venues, vendors and performers, including scheduling meetings, technical meetings, and rehearsal.
3. Creating a rundown event as a whole and form a professional crew to set the course of the wedding from preparation, rehearsal, until the event is over.
Friend or Assistant?
Wedding planner should be able to manage the committee marriage bride who became his client. "If the international marriage, who became the committee just a few. So on traditional marriage is usually the family, relatives and siblings mempelailah two candidates who will be the committee," said Hendri Gie, owner of The Wine Wedding Planner. This will make the task becomes more complicated wedding planner wedding planner to remember if one puts the family position in the committee, it will be worse the results. Can-can, the prospective bride and groom off to the altar.
Problems that arise in managing the family committee room is usually a different color, shirt color, site selection, custom what to wear, who first greeted by the guests and so on. "If there's one more big party finance, or his family has a high position, it could be that party who requested first greeted by the guests," said the man who often greeted GIE.
Wedding planner can be a mediator and unifier for the two families of prospective brides to be united in a bond of marriage. To be a mediator and unifier is not easy. It takes skill and flying hours so that a wedding planner can solve problems that arise in managing the family committee.
Gie have special tips that problems can be resolved. First, do not position the wedding planner as a family or a subordinate committee assistant bride. Make a wedding planner as a friend or friends. Second, make both families understand that a wedding planner to better understand and master the ins and outs of both traditional and international wedding so they can be trusted to make a desired wedding bride and family.
Wedding planner should explain things that are important in a wedding procession, if the bride family meeting each party does not understand in detail what his wedding procession. However, keep in mind. When speaking of the family gathering, wedding planner must demonstrate that he understands but does not seem patronizing. Position "tug" between a wedding planner with the prospective bride and family while running a lot but it will eventually arrive at common ground.
No Need to Reduce Cost
Wedding planner tasks that are not less important is to help save expenses bride. For example, counting the food the guests in attendance to be precise. According Gie, any place, whether the hotel, or function hall, restaurant and catering for home, having portions of different food for one person. Therefore, the wedding planner must have the statistical data of each place that will be a place to hold a wedding.
If the calculation of proper food portions, not less, and if excess is not too much, then the prospective bride and guests will feel comfortable. So, if from the prospective bride has limited funds, it is better discussed with the wedding planner. The goal is to create the perfect wedding atmosphere although not cost-rod jor. The important thing is the atmosphere of the wedding.
Precious Moments
A marriage would be better if the atmosphere is good marriage emerged. To be a good wedding mood arises, there must be intermingling with each other in a marriage, the eye contact between the bride and groom, family and guests all the attention drawn to the wedding, the mood music that fits with the concept, good lighting, and so forth, is are expected to appear in every marriage.
Even better if you use the services of MC or singer, you should not use MC or singer from the artist. The goal, to the attention of the guests do not split. "This is not a product launch party. Hence, the marriage would be better if you do not use MC or singer from the artist. Who will see the wedding procession?" he half asked.
Therefore, a wedding planner should be able to create a most precious moments, especially for the prospective bride and desired by the prospective bride and family. The moment had to be created. However, though it was made, will be in vain if the bride can not enjoy it at the Day of H. In order bride can enjoy, they should be good mood. And so good mood bridal, wedding planner job to make the bride a good mood. How, by helping prepare the bride wedding.