Care of everything ahead of a wedding is a very busy moment. Not infrequently, at the moment the bride and groom feel stressed.
But too much stress can cause some negative symptoms. According StressFocus sites, signs of stress include loss of appetite, shortness of breath, weight loss, sleeplessness, mood swings, depression, headaches, irritability and poor concentration.
While on your big day later, you definitely need excellent physical condition and able to enjoy that happy moment. Many things can trigger stress, such as the following things, but do not worry we have a solution.
1. Wedding vendors
Party vendors such as caterers, decorators, designer wedding dress and so will make your stress level increases. Various supply and demand of them will give you a headache. But there are remedies. Make a schedule to meet all of these vendors. Do not get the same schedule. For example, to catering, choose a time to meet the vendor two months before D-day, while for designers four months earlier. With the right schedule, you will not feel too depressed.
2. Close family member or friend who divorced
Will be a lot of people who share their wedding story to you before D-day. Including those who failed to carry out the Big Dipper household. But make their experience as a lesson. Believe that you and your husband can run their homes and will not repeat the same mistakes as couples who divorce. If anyone feels prop talk with a partner to find a solution.
3. Opinion of family and relatives
Undeniable, that in preparing a wedding, you need a lot of insert. But not to enter-enter it actually makes you confused and then stress. Strengthen first theme that want you and your partner choose to party. After that, you can pick and choose insert from relatives and family well.
4. Parents
For some reason a lot of experience from the bride and groom who locked horns with his parents before the wedding. A poor relationship with parents before the wedding making you add weight loads. But who needs to understand, your parents also experienced the same sense of stress with you. Not to mention they must accept the fact, that in a matter of time, her little daughter will get married and no longer their responsibility. Rather than arguing, better spend your time with parents to talk to each other heart to heart.
5. Pair
It could be someone who makes you stressed instead the man who will spend the rest of his life with you. Stress your spouse must also be experienced. But do not let the pressures that you and your partner just naturally become a boomerang for the relationship. If necessary, limit your meeting with him, so before the wedding, you will feel a longing for the extreme with a partner.