There are many myths about a happy marriage. But not all myths are true and may actually make you disappointed.
The myths that developed it usually comes from a television show or novel story with a happy ending story. As a result of that myth, so people have high expectations in marriage.
Whereas in real life, marriage is not always beautiful like the ones in the story of the movie or novel. There are twists and turns, ranging from minor issues to matters of sex that might have caused the marriage is destroyed.
Here are various myths about marriage and the actual reality of marriage was quoted as saying:
Myth 1: Marriage can make a person no longer lonely.
Reality: Many married couples who until now remained lonely.
Myth 2: Weddings can make a person feel more complete life.
Reality: a married couple that complement each other instead of each other makes life so complete.
Myth 3: All people should get married.
Reality: Many people who are not married to her life much happier than married couples.
Myth 4: The romance will always be in a healthy marriage.
Reality: Almost all couples experience ups and downs of their relationship. Daily problems and various other life's problems could dim the romance of it.
Myth 5: Marriage can make you happy.
Reality: You can not expect your partner to be the only source of happiness. Your own happiness should come from yourself. Marriage is able to complete your happiness but it's not the only major source.
Myth 6: The problem will not come if you and your partner love each other indeed.
Reality: A healthy marriage is not formed by itself. You and your partner should love each other, open and committed.
Myth 7: The couple should know what you want or feel without you having to say it.
Reality: While you and your partner are married, does not mean he can so easily read minds or know your heart's content. Communication is one key to a successful marriage.
Myth 8: Arguments in a marriage means that the couple did not love each other too.
Reality: Conflict always happens in every marriage. It's just that they should not fight each other to win myself, but for the sake of common interests and there is a solution.
In essence, in undergoing a marriage, you and your partner need a lot of things if you want lasting. Marriage is not enough just to be lived with love, but the couple should be mutually supportive, tolerant, communications, have realistic expectations, loving, committed, and of course it takes a little sense of humor.